tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7361134039960047472.post3423005894741359049..comments2023-08-05T04:38:50.110-07:00Comments on With An "H": Fight!John Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01148138073618817344noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7361134039960047472.post-82297363240406518212008-04-27T23:03:00.000-07:002008-04-27T23:03:00.000-07:00BiV: It's probably more like all -people- do this,...BiV: It's probably more like all -people- do this, couples, siblings, friends, etc.<BR/><BR/>We did eventually resolve things by mutually figuring out that I was right.<BR/><BR/>*ducks*John Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01148138073618817344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7361134039960047472.post-3646965650570962882008-04-27T03:53:00.000-07:002008-04-27T03:53:00.000-07:00you guys--hope you don't mind, but I've been sorta...you guys--hope you don't mind, but I've been sorta following your relationship too. And I'm even more fascinated since I read amelia's post at exponentblog. I know interfaith issues are hard, but just to put it into perspective, ALL couples do this. Example: <BR/><BR/>Me: I'm tired and grouchy and want attention.<BR/><BR/>DH: I'm working on something else right now.<BR/><BR/>Repeat for 2 hours, using louder and louder voices.<BR/><BR/>Cry.<BR/><BR/>Go to bed.<BR/><BR/>Wake up in the morning and realize you both overreacted a tiny bit.<BR/><BR/>So yeah.Bored in Vernalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14016611721544251941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7361134039960047472.post-28881126842366041462008-04-19T15:55:00.000-07:002008-04-19T15:55:00.000-07:00thank you, jana. you know, the thing is that even...thank you, jana. you know, the thing is that even when we've had difficult conversations about this, i have always felt such trust in john and such peace in the relationship, that i've been able to rely on those feelings to carry me through the difficult moments. maybe rather than calling it ridiculous that it took so long to get to the heart of the problem that night, i should be glad that it took so little time. and that, ultimately, the experience reinforced the trust and peace rather than undermining it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7361134039960047472.post-26620987876967843612008-04-19T15:07:00.000-07:002008-04-19T15:07:00.000-07:00my friends...thanks for sharing this little window...my friends...thanks for sharing this little window into how you're navigating your interfaith relationship.<BR/><BR/>Wishing you the best of luck... :)<BR/><BR/>(and wishing I could somehow make it all better for you)janahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06538362162139679868noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7361134039960047472.post-7640971110415128892008-04-19T10:37:00.000-07:002008-04-19T10:37:00.000-07:00when you put it that way, it underscores how ridic...when you put it that way, it underscores how ridiculous it was that it took over an hour to actually get to the real problem. a problem that being with you helps me with more than i realized it would.<BR/><BR/>and i was thinking that i <I>refused</I> to let this be the beginning of the end. i'm glad i wasn't the only one. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com